How can I attract more positive people into my life? When you’ve grown tired of dealing with toxic, miserable people, you might find yourself asking exactly what you can do to bring more healthy, positive people into your life. This is how you can do exactly that.
Attract Positive People With the Law of Attraction
The Universal Law of Attraction states that we attract whatever we wish to give our attention to – whether it is wanted or unwanted. This is a universal law because it doesn’t matter who you are, what your religious beliefs are, where you live, or even where you were born. This law is true for all people equally. It is just as true as Newton’s Law of Gravity.
Most of the time we happen to attract by “default” and we do not make a deliberate choice. We just sort of go about our daily existence and focus on problems that need solving, or we focus on things that did not seem right or feel good. By doing this, we actually end up creating more problems. But you can be more intentional, and by doing so, you can have more control over your experiences and this includes who gets to be part of your life.
You Are a Magnet
Think of yourself as a huge magnet. A magnet does not “try” to attract, it simply does. This is the same for us. Whether we are trying to attract or not, we are doing it all of the time.
We happen to attract the likeness of what we are thinking about. If we are thinking about having more positive people in our lives, chances are we will see the opportunity to bring more positive people into our lives. If we happen to be thinking about how negative and toxic the people in our lives are – well, then we will attract more of those people.
As human beings, we are very powerful attractors. We are able to use this power to attract the things we want in life by simply paying attention to where we put our thoughts and desires. Most of the time we believe we are thinking with our mind when most of the time it is from the heart. This is where we do our believing, thinking, and our “vibrating.” Think of your heart as a very powerful magnet. It is the “vibrator” that attracts all signals.
The Art of Deliberation consists of three main parts:
- Get a very clear picture of what it is that you want.
- Raise your vibration until it matches what you want.
- Allow what you want to come to you.
Getting Clarity on Your Desire to Bring More Positive People Into Your Life
We are given the chance to gain clarity to know exactly what we want by using the many “contrasts” that life has to offer to us. We must observe it briefly, and then use it to help you make the decision as to what you want to do. This is an art that takes some practice as we have the habit of talking about, telling others about, and focusing on that which we do not like.
We must change these negative contrasts into positive vibrations in order to attract more positive people into our lives.
The Law of Attraction states that similar things attract to one another, thus, the saying “birds of a feather flock together.” If everything begins with a thought and the Law of Attraction plays a big role in manifesting the thought, then it can be illustrated as follows:
A THOUGHT (attracts) OTHER SIMILAR THOUGHTS (attract) OTHER PEOPLE OF SIMILAR THOUGHTS (attract) CIRCUMSTANCES THAT ARE IN HARMONY WITH THOSE THOUGHTS (lead to) THE THING DESIRED BY THOSE THOUGHTS EXPRESSED IN PHYSICAL FORM
At the level of thought “things” are nothing but random energy waiting to be “assembled”. Yet they are as real as electricity is real. We can’t see electricity, but we know beyond shadows of a doubt that it exists. We also know that thoughts are real because everything that has ever been invented or created in our physical world began with a thought. The manifestation of the “thing” from the invisible plane into our physical world is enabled by the persistence of thought.
Scientists teach us that the whole universe is made of energy. Energy has frequencies. Thoughts are energy in its primitive stage. Thought energies radiate frequencies just as radio antennas radiate frequencies. The level of thought frequency determines the kind of physical manifestation and circumstance that we have; low thought frequencies correspond to the physical expression of similar frequencies while high thought frequencies correspond to things, people, or circumstances of similar frequencies.
The key to keep in mind is that thoughts are as real as any physical thing. You must be completely convinced as that it is so just as you are convinced that the earth is round. Hold your thoughts long enough and in time you’ll see them manifest in your reality.
So go ahead. Think yourself into healthier, more meaningful relationships. You’re limited to the kind of thoughts you hold in your mind. The Law of Attraction does work. All you need to do is check your thoughts.
Attract Positive People Into Your Life By Removing Resistance
Resistance is defined as the ability “to withstand, to strive against, to exert force in opposition, to counteract, defeat or frustrate.”
Resistance is useful if there is a flu or virus around. If your body’s immune system is working as it should, you’ll have good “resistance to disease” – you’ll stay healthy. Resistance to the temptation to do something that goes against your core values will strengthen you while giving into that temptation will weaken your character.
Resistance can be an indicator that something isn’t quite right for you, at this time. It’s good to notice resistance and to ask yourself, “Why am I experiencing this resistance?”
There’s another side to resistance. The other side of resistance destroys the very thing that we desire. This resistance arises from a dislike for change. Humans are sort of strange in that we offer a desire to the Universe, and then we resist the very changes this desire sets in motion.
Emotions are “energy in motion.” When we try to suppress an emotion (especially one we’ve judged as negative or dangerous) it does not go away, it goes into our subconscious mind where it silently sabotages our life by setting up a resistance which invites more negative experiences and creates tension between people who used to enjoy each other.
Here’s the thing. Resistance doesn’t just put on the brakes to getting what we want in life. In fact, it disintegrates; it separates; it decomposes; it fragments our True Self. We lose our sense of wholeness. And it most certainly prevents us from attracting what we want – including wanting positive people to come into our lives!
What can we do about resistance?
Is there an alternative? Should we resist resistance? That doesn’t work. If we notice resistance and try to suppress it or resist it–we create MORE!
The alternative is acceptance. Not resignation, but creative acceptance. Change is bound to happen. People are going to make choices that affect our lives. We are going to make choices that have an effect on others.
How we handle change – invited or uninvited – will affect our vibration and in turn, our quality of life. Take a few moments to notice resistance in your body, mind, or emotions. What does it feel like? Restriction? Tightness? Blockage? Frustration? Confusion? Judgment? Indignation? Yes, all those feelings are evidence of resistance.
When I’m noticing resistance, I ask my Higher Self for understanding and creative acceptance. My prayer will be something like this: “Please show me the root of my resistance and at the same time, give me an idea of how to creatively accept this situation.”
Change is going to happen. We either create resistance or acceptance. Once choice contributes to the disintegration of my character and the other strengthens our sense of wholeness. It is really all your choice.
Attract More Positive People By Focusing on Positive Things
When you try to focus on the positive things in life you start to see more positive things. You need feeling, believing, and positively and successfully, start reading books about positive thinking and being successful. Every day you need to think and act successful, by doing this you will feel and become successful.
Remind yourself that you are close to starting everything from the beginning again. Get yourself a hobby anything that takes your mind off the world for a while will help increase your love of life and help you relax, eliminate stress, and enjoy peace. Without pushing yourself you will never become successful or have the ability to become successful.
Keep your plan with you at all times and read it aloud to yourself several times during the day. By allowing yourself the time, and I’m talking about just a few minutes here, to stop, breathe deeply and relax effectively, you can soon reap the rewards. To become successful you need to place your mind in a state of happiness and positive thinking, by doing this you attract positive people and by attracting positive people you will attract successful people who will help with your success.
The Key to Making This Work: Take Inspired Action!
The law of attraction is a very powerful tool to use to get what you want if you know the proper way to use it. One thing a lot of people get wrong about the LOA is that they don’t think they need to actually DO anything, outside of thinking happy thoughts, in order to manifest what they want.
This is unfortunately misleading. While being open to receiving what you want and being able to focus on the idea of what you want can certainly facilitate actually getting it, you can’t just sit around wishing for things to happen and then expecting your new friends to just fall into your lap.
Write Down Your Goals
It’s important to commit your goals to paper, so write them down and display your goals where you will see them each day. Break down larger long-term goals into monthly or weekly goals so you can stay on track without feeling overwhelmed. Writing your goals will effectively enable you to put them into action.
What is it that’s in it for you that will drive you to pursue the goals that you have defined? Be very specific about your goals. Only when there is a specific goal can you develop an effective strategy. So, get really detailed on the kind of positive people you’re hoping to attract into your life.
Get Out Into the World (Virtually or Actually)
Whether you meet new people through Meetup.com or through another in-person way to network, it’s all about getting out into the world a little bit and connecting with like-minded people. But if you’re reading this article during the time of the pandemic, you might do better to connect with new people in Facebook groups first. Either way, you’ve got to make some effort – to take some inspired action – to make it all happen.
So what do you think? Are you working on bringing more positive people into your own life? What has worked for you and what hasn’t?